#include <bits/stdc++.h>
using namespace std;
// #define int long long
#define endl '\n'
const int INF = 0x3f3f3f3f3f3f3f3f, MOD = 1e9+7, LOG = 20, N = 2e5+5;
void solve(){
int n,m; cin >> n >> m;
int ans = 0;
vector<pair<int,int>> res;
for(int i = 1; i <= m; i++){
int l; cin >> l;
int tot = 0;
vector<int> pr(l+1);
for(int j = 1; j <= l; j++){
int x; cin >> x;
tot += x;
pr[j] = pr[j-1] + x;
}
vector<pair<int,int>> v;
for(int i = 0; i <= l; i++){
v.push_back({pr[i]+1, n - (tot-pr[i])});
}
sort(v.begin(), v.end());
vector<pair<int,int>> inter;
inter.push_back({0,0});
int mnl = v[0].first, mxr = v[0].second;
for(int i = 1; i < v.size(); i++){
if(v[i].first > mxr){
inter.push_back({mnl,mxr});
mnl = v[i].first;
mxr = v[i].second;
}
else{
mnl = min(mnl, v[i].first);
mxr = max(mxr, v[i].second);
}
}
inter.push_back({mnl,mxr});
inter.push_back({n+1,n+1});
for(int i = 1; i < inter.size(); i++){
if(inter[i-1].second == inter[i].first-1) continue;
res.push_back({inter[i-1].second+1, inter[i].first-1});
}
}
sort(res.begin(), res.end());
vector<pair<int,int>> son;
int mnl = res[0].first, mxr = res[0].second;
for(int i = 1; i < res.size(); i++){
if(res[i].first > mxr){
son.push_back({mnl,mxr});
mnl = res[i].first;
mxr = res[i].second;
}
else{
mnl = min(mnl, res[i].first);
mxr = max(mxr, res[i].second);
}
}
son.push_back({mnl,mxr});
for(auto [a,b] : son){
ans += (b-a+1);
}
cout << ans << endl;
}
/*
5,6
7
3,4,5,6,7,9
*/
signed main(){
ios_base::sync_with_stdio(0);cin.tie(0);cout.tie(0);
int t = 1;
// cin >> t;
for(int i = 1; i <= t; i++){
solve();
}
}
